March 1, 2019

The Grace in Grief

Blog post contributed by Sandra Wallin

I just came across this beautiful quote and was struck yet again by the at times oracular nature of the internet, bringing forth exactly what was needed even though I did not know I was in need.

There are those, however, that are not frightened of grief: dropping deep into the sorrow, they find therein a necessary elixir to the numbness. When they encounter one another, when they press their foreheads against the bark of a centuries-old tree…their eyes well with tears that fall easily to the ground. The soil needs this water. Grief is but a gate, and our tears a kind of key opening a place of wonder thats been locked away. Suddenly we notice a sustaining resonance between the drumming heart within our chest and the pulse rising from the ground.”

~ David Abram

2017 has offered up one loss after another, and I am not alone in my account. For my part, the messages have been profound though not necessarily easy or for sharing in polite company, so read on if you’re feeling a bit windswept, otherwise, save this for another day…

Intolerant is what I have been, with the “deer-in-the-headlights” reactions sputtered out by a society that is frightened by grief – who does not know how to honour loss, let alone know what to do with or for someone who is in its throes – who instead of holding space for dropping deeper into sorrow, where the elixir to numbness resides, tries to raise spirits with thin cheer to avoid being submerged in their own well of grief – who deflects by immediately telling their own woe stories so we’ll know, they know, exactly how we are feeling…

STOP!!!

To avoid avoiding how I am being affected by the deaths and traumas of this still young year, and the run for cover reactions that have been showing up to teach me, I have noticed a desire to choose solitude and silence over conversation of late. Okay, that may not be entirely true, for in leaving aside the good intentioned intentions of human nature, I have found myself part of a deeper conversation – with myself, and with Nature herself.

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